So, you are sitting at the bar, watching other ladies and gents making connections. Yet, you aren't. Why is this happening to you? After some extensive research into the archives of data from my dating service, I have been able to compile some noteworthy key elements to be a success on the art of sex appeal.
Confidence is key. I know the statement is simple, but it really that simple. Men find women who are confident to be the ones they tend to migrate towards in social settings. In fact 85% of men put this trait as their top trait in locating a sexy woman. Ever noticing how the woman with the attitude has men eating out the palm of her hand? She has the inner ability to love what she has. This woman is the type who finds her imperfects okay. She embraces the tiny freckles on her nose; the big hips her momma gave her; the booty that can't hold a tray on. She is smiling, has a confidence that oozes off her aura like a magnet pulling the opposite polar inside the bodies of men.
Confidence is one the key traits men look for in a woman. Her charm, sense of humor, attractiveness, and composure also fall on that list. But at the top is confidence. So, now probably thinking, "Well, I am confident in my own skin, so not me?", right? Sexy isn't something comes form a bottle, or a lotion that can put on your face before you step out your door in the morning to face each day. Sexy is combination of your beauty from inside, coming through on the outside. Corny, we know. However, think about it. Doesn't it make you think about that woman you know who can walk into a room and instantly hold the attention of the room. It isn't her stunning cleavage, or deep-V dress. It is her inner beauty coming through to the outside.
Let's talk about some key elements to find your inner beauty, to let it come out and play. Men are attractive to woman who can be sexy by being herself. Some elements to draw out could be your intelligent. A sexy woman can talk about current events, speaks her mind, and is able to stay emotional connected to her self. A sexy woman is able to speak with a confident voice. To really wow him, speak a lower octave than you normally do. Try to lower your voice tone and see what happens. Most men will lean towards you to better what you have to say, since your words have knowledge behind them.
Your sense of humor is a great tool to use at every opportunity. Laugh off the little things; example could be if something is spilled on you. Instead of going off the handle about it, just simply laugh it off. This shows a man you can be a good person to be around. Another component of humor to find the little things life that make you happy. If your happiness is in the Starbucks coffee you have every morning, let him see that. Laughter is part of the language of love; it connects you on a different level than just physical.
Nurturing is an element that some women don't know if that should be part of the sexiness they give off to men. It yes, actually. Men want a woman who will take care of them in the long run. They want to find someone who will know how to take care of them when they are sick or having a bad day at work. A sexy woman is able to getting off a caring side to her aura. It is simple to do, I promise. The little things you do, he notices. So next time you are out on a date, say thank you. That is right; by saying thank you it shows him that you appreciate his actions. When a woman does this, it send a signal to a man's subconscious that woman would be able to be gracious. Complements are also another way to show your nurturing side. A sexy woman would be able to give a great complement. Mean what you say and say what you mean. Men know the difference between a fake complement and a genuine one; his face might even show if you watch it carefully enough.
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