Are you in a secret relationship? Then you must read this!

A relationship that is kept a secret can be exhilarating in the beginning, but then it can also weigh you down keeping this secret. You may have genuine reasons for not letting anyone know about your secret relationship, but at some point, the trouble of keeping this secret can damage the relationship and you have to pick whether to keep the secret or let the relationship be known.

One of the main purposes for having a secret relationship with a person is because you agonize about what others may feel. Perhaps your father and mother, or your friends may not consent of the person you are seeing. So, before having a secret relationship, you may want stop and think why they would not approve.

Your friends and family members generally want what is best for you. Sometime they may inflict their will upon you, but all in all they have your best interest at heart.

Sometimes they may feel that you can be hurt, or that you are not treated right. Maybe that person has given reason why the relationship may not be right. It is hard to blame them if they are right about this. In fact, you may be keeping the relationship a secret because you don't totally disagree.

Maybe you just do not want to hear their concerns. Maybe it's because they are not completely wrong, or else, why are you keeping the relationship a secret? Why not bring it out in the open, and show everyone how wrong they are?