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Saturday 30 July 2011

Overcoming The Common Fears Of Sex

When it comes to sex, most people generally have certain fears hidden in them. This is basically because they lack the requisite knowledge on sex and its related issues.

Fear takes away the beauty and the excitement associated with sex. Fear cripples the power of couples for a pleasurable sexual performance as well as destroys the love in couples.

Most of the fears of sex among couples are usually associated with the the size of the penis, first time sex of virgins, the fear of not being able to satisfy each other and the size of the female breast. In this article, I wish to educate couples on how to easily overcome these surmountable fears so they can enjoy an exciting sex life with their partners. Let start with the fears about the size of the penis which is very dear to an incalculable number of men.

1. Fears about the size of the penis.

Men! Do not fret much about the size of your penis. The truth is (and please believe on this), two to three inches long of penis is just enough to do rock any vagina on the planet earth. Smiling...! Get this once and for all: with your two to three inched penis, you can drive a woman crazy by touching the inner vagina of any woman, which is jolly sensitive to touch.

Let me give you some few rocking tips here! Before you set your "machine gun" into action, begin by giving your love one some reasonable amount of kisses. Stimulate her body, let her lie on her back and gently stimulate both the hood and the button of the clitoris with your fingers. Expect your wife to make some real funny noise at this time. Go on gently...! Please my man, do not do the stimulation with a dry finger, which could cause an irritation and turn her off. Let the stimulation continue uninterrupted. When she is aroused and near orgasm, she will begin to breathe a little faster, heavier and deeper. Gently pick up your ready to conquer "machine gun" and as it is erect and the arousal stimulus continues, thrust in and out her vagina as the excitement increases progressively and orgasm approaches. Well done, man!

You should not feel inadequate because no penis is too small for marvelous vagina shake-up jobs.

2. Fear associated with first time sex of virgins.

My dear virgins, if others just like you have been through it and survived, and even now mastered the sex game, then you should be encouraged. Most virgins believe that the sex act will and must be painful and accompanied by excessive bleeding. Oh no! That is too much of an exaggeration.

My dears, please try these tips out. First of all, psychologically prepare your mind being naked, enjoying sex with your husband and just imagine going through your first pain. On your own, try locating your vagina by inserting your finger and gently thrust in and out. For your husband to easily locate your vagina, do well to trim your pubic hair before action begins. To reduce shyness and tension, the light should be turned off (it's up to you to decide on this!).

Apply some lubricant to your vagina as your man does the same for his penis. Use your hand to guide his penis into your vagina and let him penetrate slowly and push gently. It is best that you two make love in the missionary position since it is simple and a gentle way to make love. This is where some small pain will be felt and may be accompanied by little bleeding as the hymen is broken. That all! You can now fully enjoy your sex life!

3. Fear of not being able to satisfy your spouse.

Believe me, you have what it takes to blow out the brain of your spouse when making love. You are more than able. Accept it! Think it! Act it! Sexual experience is not a mere performance for a 100 out of 100 score. It is an expression of love. Couples should just relax, get to know each other, overcome their first experience and work things out. Things will just get better day by day, weeks after weeks, and so on...

4. Fear of the size of the female breast.

Your breasts are cute and fit you perfectly! The beauty of your breast is in place no matter the size. Ladies, be convinced about the beauty of your mature divulged breasts and exhibit them boldly to yourselves and husbands. Men should also acknowledge the fact that, the look of the woman breast when dressed may be different to that in the undressed state. You will always appreciate the breast of your lady when undressed. That's a fact! You will always appreciate your flat - chested lady when she is undressed. For love making, it is the nipple and its surrounding "quarters" of the breast that gives sexual arousal. That is a good place to suck!


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