A Guide To Sex After Marriage

There have been endless comments on why sex decreases or different after marriage. In most cases men are more affected because it is obvious that men want more sex after marriage.

Women and sex

In the issue of sex women are considered to be the experts when it comes to what make them want and enjoy good sex. It is not true when we assume that women have problem with getting turned on. The fact is that they are turned on differently.

Women's sexuality is in their brain. When a woman is being told over and over again that she is not as sexually sensitive as men, she begin to believe she is not. This mind-trap should be avoided by women because women do not get turned on in the same way as men do.

In fact, there are lots of women who are sexually more active than men. The truth is that women are capable of holding back their sexual desires more than men.

Some Tips To Walk Your Way Into Woman's Heart

1. Do not make sex the main object of your relationship, be sensitive to her feelings.

2. Always remember that the time it takes for sex with man is less than the average time for arousal for woman.

3. Telling her she is beautiful does not make her feel beautiful.

4. Ongoing communication is more important to her because her needs change constituently.

5. Do not make short time effort and give up when you do not see immediate result, making a relationship to last is a life long effort and ongoing.

6. Ask her what would make the marriage/relationship work better for her. Sex might make it better for you, but what would fulfill her?

7. Make genuine efforts without expectation, not only when you want sex.

8. Women think a lot about things. When you have an argument she might take it to the bedroom and not receive your advances latter because the argument lives on in her.

Once you are married you need to make new experiences and imprints. What is regarded as hot sex before marriage is not acceptable in marriages. Hot sex in marriage is having a woman who loves you and knows every bit of you to know exactly how to please you.

Sex with someone you love and are married to must be fulfilling with different mindset about what makes sex good. It is true that men like fixing things, but listening to a woman is in itself fixing it. A woman likes to feel she is being heard and understood. If you block her out and not pay attention, she will assume you have nothing to offer her and if you want something in return "sex" she will deny you of it.

If you avoid woman emotionally she will avoid you physically. Keep the communication alive. You need to talk about your favorites as well as hers and such discussion must be ongoing for a continuous healthy relationship.